Defence

Self defense is nature's oldest mechanism, in an argument you need to be aware of it in a few ways:
• Don't weaponize your grace. If you've done something good in the past, don't use it as leverage later.
• Take care of your temper. Anger is a legitimate emotion but just because you feel it doesn't mean that others have to deal with it.
• Storming out is a bad look.
• When you're wrong, just admit it and move on.